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Andy Monheit's avatar

Twenty-One Years Into the Light

Today we watch you cross

that invisible threshold—

not from boyhood to manhood,

but from inheritance

into authorship.

Twenty-one years ago

we held you, astonished,

as if the universe

had trusted us

with something far too precious

to belong to us at all.

And now here you stand—

taller than our memories,

steadier than our fears,

already walking roads

we cannot walk for you.

We have lived long enough

to know the world is noisy,

full of promises and alarms,

full of people who mistake speed for wisdom

and power for truth.

But we have also learned

what lasts:

Kindness outlives cleverness.

Integrity outlasts applause.

Curiosity opens doors

that force never can.

And love—quiet, stubborn love—

is the only wealth

that grows when given away.

You were born into a time

both turbulent and miraculous,

an age when humanity stands

between fear and awakening,

between old habits

and new understanding.

And we see in you

what we have come to trust:

Each generation

arrives carrying fresh light,

able to see solutions

we could not imagine.

So today, we do not wish

that life be easy for you.

Easy roads rarely lead

to beautiful destinations.

We wish instead that you:

Trust your inner compass.

Laugh often.

Stand up for those without voices.

Apologize quickly.

Forgive generously.

And never forget

that your worth was never earned—

it was given the moment you arrived.

Know this above all:

No matter how far you travel,

how many cities you call home,

how many lives you touch,

there will always be two people

quietly cheering your becoming,

astonished still

by the miracle

that calls us Mom and Dad.

Happy 21st birthday, son.

Go live the story

only you can tell.

Anne Witt's avatar

No one can improve on what you wrote above, Andy Monheit. Happy Birthday, Mick!

Bob Dunning's avatar

Amen, Anne. Andy has a tremendous gift with words.

Sherri Lee Smith's avatar

WOW ... great tribute.

Bob Dunning's avatar

Andy -

That is one of the most beautiful things I've ever read. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I'm sharing it far and wide.

Austin Kerr's avatar

Most days it’s wonderful to see photos by Mick. Today it’s wonderful to see photos of Mick.

Bob Dunning's avatar

Wonderfully said, Austin. Thank you

erin dunning's avatar

hbd uncle mick love you brother

Ted's avatar

happy birthday to the best photographer of his generation

Patricia Green's avatar

Beautiful family! Happy Birthday, Mick!!🎉🎂⭐️

Bob Dunning's avatar

Thanks so much, Patsy

Diane Steele's avatar

Awwww, these photos are priceless! Those girls sure do take after their beautiful Momma, don't you think?

Bob Dunning's avatar

Thanks so much, Diane.

Yes, they absolutely look like their mom.

Samia Foster's avatar

Happy 21st birthday to Mick!!!

Helen M. Thomson's avatar

Happy 21st Birthday Mick! Time flies. Thank you for sharing your photography skills.

Phil Coleman's avatar

Amazing that he is 21! I prayed for him all that first scary week ... thank you, Jesus!

Kathy

Bob Dunning's avatar

Thanks, Kathy. Prayers answered.

Mary Bodendorfer's avatar

Happy 21st Birthday Mick 🥳

Enjoy celebrating you

Spencer Kenner's avatar

HBD Mick!

Lucille King's avatar

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MICK! 🎁🎂🎈🎊

Dorothea Bonneau's avatar

You are magnificent parents. Happy birthday to all of you.

Jan Bazinet's avatar

You are lucky to have your children!

Bob Dunning's avatar

Indeed, Jan. Thanks a million.

Drew Lancaster's avatar

Sweet memory for a wonderful kid

John Crowe's avatar

Happy birthday, Mick. You're a gifted photographer!